G.D Anderson (via agentsofsheild)
I’m not a feminist…not really an anything ‘ist.’ I broadly identify with this statement though and the same applies men. If a man is sensitive or expressive, it doesn’t make him feminine or ‘metrosexual.’ It’s not about what is, nor about changing the way the world views something, it’s about taking responsibility for our own views, and maybe, changing them.
"Women’s communication is like mille feuille, the French pastry of many layers - if you want more than surface meaning, you must first perceive the layers to discover what lies beneath."
© S. Marian, Sept.25, 2012
Go on, pull back the layers and discover the truth of women’s communication with men - read, “The Dressed Word,” to be found on “A View From Outside the Box,” url: adialogue.
(For a different take on communication in relation to gender: www.womensviewsonnews.org/2010/11/gendered-communications/
John, in more ways than one you have really made my day. Thanks for the thoughtful comments which I will post below and thank you also for the wonderful link. Read this one everyone, it will suprise you in the best possible way. I honour and salute you Zarifa Qazizadah - you are my idea of a hero.
From John and in response to “Good Women Have Their Reward”:
"But are we so different to other animals, are we geneticaly predisposed to certain roles, childbirth is one, but what if there are more subtle genes, genetics and hard wired programmes that we have yet to discover.. just because we "can" does it mean we have to?
Certain studies find some societies with clearly defined gender roles have less stress and less mental and social disorder…
My wife wants me to do the ironing rather than cut the wood for the fire, however she will not cut the wood…..
I think we try too hard to change rather than just settling into a natural role…”
And a bit more in response to my commenting that women should be able to perform their role without being invalidated or subjugated, as it seemed they were in Victorian times…
"I think "subjugated" is a modern issue, even American Indians, Aztecs and Eskimo’s had well defined roles but I would say that natural ability is far more important in these societies closer to - "nature" for want of a better word, I think modern culture and society may be doing women no favours."
"I think that link (click on link at the bottom of the photo for the article) may be closer to what would have been possible if religion and society did not stifle , I was going to say women but it is probably true of us all…"
Now that you’ve enjoyed John’s thoughts and many thanks again John for sharing them, click on the link and read the most fascinating story about my new hero, Zarifa Qazizadah. She has become the country’s (Afganistan) only female village chief through force of personality and determination to get things done- even if that means cross-dressing, wearing a false moustache and driving around on a motorbike at night. (BBC News Magazine)